
A few times in the past I mentioned on my forum….what do we tell a student traumatized in a street attack….a battered woman ….a raped woman…etc. who come knocking on your door looking for ways to defend herself so that nothing like what she went through…will ever happen again.
Well, Rory in his book covers this critical subject in detail in a very pointed manner….
He talks of ‘contract’ in words with this student with resulting caveats.
Rory wrote this section so well that the information will burrow deep into your soul as a practitioner of defensive violence and as of your responsibility as a teacher of such students.
Here is a sampling
This section must be read over and over and over, because it will shock you deep inside and cause you to view your made up ‘martial world’ in an entire different light…and realize the shortcomings beginning to take the form of venomous snakes coiling around your psyche.…exposure to extreme violence will change you.
….you will realize that many people are attached to ideas and opinions that are meaningless, and how many of the passionate disagreements of your past were largely pointless.
It may become hard to talk to people…your frame of reference may have shifted forever…for me… it’s hard to talk to martial artists, to see their shiny happy eyes as they discuss a fantasy that you pray they will never test.

Soon, your pecker won’t seem much bigger than the next teacher in a style.

Go buy the book and read it.
