Posted: Thu Jan 29, 2004 8:34 pm
I personally don't have a burning desire to go get married right now. There are a lot of people who've noticed the "lifelong" instution is fubar, with 50% divorce rate, prenups, acrimony, and other nonsense. What pisses me off is that the President and the wingnuts he is sucking up to support an amendment to the FEDERAL consitution to prevent one group of people from enjoying the same unions another group already enjoys. Folks, this is nothing but a black water fountain for the 21st century, make no mistake about it. And it wasn't a couple of homos holding hands, paying bills, raising a kid and paying taxes that asked to get married that caused Britney Spear's marriage to dissolve after 55 hours. People have got to look at their OWN problems and fix them instead of seeking to blame others (AHEM, certain child molesting and or child molester sheltering hypocritical Catholic Bishops).
Otherwise equivalent "Civil Unions" were ok with me intellectually if the majority is insecure about sharing the title they enjoy, but the legal fact of the matter is that "separate but equal" has been untenable for decades. And I would never fault ANY group for being sick of second class citizenship in the supposed greatest democracy in the world, especially when they're expected to fight and sometimes die for it, so long as they do so silently and in shame ("don't ask don't tell," which has led in recent years to the highest rates of purposeless military discharges for sexual orientation in history). I should point out that those vaunted Vermontian Civil Unions get you little to nothing once you're vaccationing in another state and something goes wrong with your partner or kids.
http://www.ustreas.gov/education/fact-s ... trust.html
The phrase was added to coins around the time of the civil war; it wasn't part of any founder's principles. This is much as the religiosity in the Pledge was added to highlight the G-dlessness of communism in the 50s. It isn't fundamental to the State. I believe the Amendment in question means the government should neither AID nor HINDER religious activity in this country. I believe this means the govenment should not endorse the predominant opinion among the vocal members of the predominant religious groups in the country (many Christians, Jews, and some Islamic people, among others, support equality in marriage or at least believe it's not their business to interfere with other's pursuit of happiness). If the govenment does, it is stating a preference for some religious thought over others, which is none of it's business. Once, my partner of 6 year's brother's wife's parents (both ministers) offered to marry us at the probable cost to them of their livelihood. What a noble gesture--we had to decline. Bush, notably, apparently feels their religion is less valuable than his.
I am unaware of any secular purpose for discriminating by sex in the ability to marry someone of a certain gender (men can marry women, but women cannot). We largely understand that discriminating by sex in the ability to vote, work, earn the same wage, be elected, etc, etc is wrong and that countries that do this are backwards and prejudiced, often with the degree of emphasis on gender roles in proportion to the degree of backwardness(good example: fundamentalist islamic societies such as that once ruled by the Taliban have the harshest treatment of women). The excuses for discriminating in the right to marry are as empty as those used by the US military to support it's discrimination (ref "Conduct Unbecoming", Randy Shilts). These included the prejudices of other soldiers (put forth as the rationale for segregated units in the past), unit cohesion (with which western countries without discrimination against LGBs have had no issue, and with which the LGB members of our military have had few problems) and vulnerability of LGBs to blackmail (heightened only by the policy, and negated by being open). Those brought forth in favor of limiting marriage to opposite sex people include protection of traditional marriage (no concrete meaning or reason yet put forth), protection of children (no rationale established and the counterpoint of limiting benefits to same sex couple's children fairly obvious), encouraging procreation (not needed, nor is there a substantial difference in rates of childbearing, nor is there a shortage of adoptable children, nor is there a prohibition against infertile opposite couples), and the like.
In fact it basically comes down to the squeamishness factor, which is, it makes the wingnuts uncomfortable. Sad excuse for modifying the Constitution.
Otherwise equivalent "Civil Unions" were ok with me intellectually if the majority is insecure about sharing the title they enjoy, but the legal fact of the matter is that "separate but equal" has been untenable for decades. And I would never fault ANY group for being sick of second class citizenship in the supposed greatest democracy in the world, especially when they're expected to fight and sometimes die for it, so long as they do so silently and in shame ("don't ask don't tell," which has led in recent years to the highest rates of purposeless military discharges for sexual orientation in history). I should point out that those vaunted Vermontian Civil Unions get you little to nothing once you're vaccationing in another state and something goes wrong with your partner or kids.
http://www.ustreas.gov/education/fact-s ... trust.html
The phrase was added to coins around the time of the civil war; it wasn't part of any founder's principles. This is much as the religiosity in the Pledge was added to highlight the G-dlessness of communism in the 50s. It isn't fundamental to the State. I believe the Amendment in question means the government should neither AID nor HINDER religious activity in this country. I believe this means the govenment should not endorse the predominant opinion among the vocal members of the predominant religious groups in the country (many Christians, Jews, and some Islamic people, among others, support equality in marriage or at least believe it's not their business to interfere with other's pursuit of happiness). If the govenment does, it is stating a preference for some religious thought over others, which is none of it's business. Once, my partner of 6 year's brother's wife's parents (both ministers) offered to marry us at the probable cost to them of their livelihood. What a noble gesture--we had to decline. Bush, notably, apparently feels their religion is less valuable than his.
I am unaware of any secular purpose for discriminating by sex in the ability to marry someone of a certain gender (men can marry women, but women cannot). We largely understand that discriminating by sex in the ability to vote, work, earn the same wage, be elected, etc, etc is wrong and that countries that do this are backwards and prejudiced, often with the degree of emphasis on gender roles in proportion to the degree of backwardness(good example: fundamentalist islamic societies such as that once ruled by the Taliban have the harshest treatment of women). The excuses for discriminating in the right to marry are as empty as those used by the US military to support it's discrimination (ref "Conduct Unbecoming", Randy Shilts). These included the prejudices of other soldiers (put forth as the rationale for segregated units in the past), unit cohesion (with which western countries without discrimination against LGBs have had no issue, and with which the LGB members of our military have had few problems) and vulnerability of LGBs to blackmail (heightened only by the policy, and negated by being open). Those brought forth in favor of limiting marriage to opposite sex people include protection of traditional marriage (no concrete meaning or reason yet put forth), protection of children (no rationale established and the counterpoint of limiting benefits to same sex couple's children fairly obvious), encouraging procreation (not needed, nor is there a substantial difference in rates of childbearing, nor is there a shortage of adoptable children, nor is there a prohibition against infertile opposite couples), and the like.
In fact it basically comes down to the squeamishness factor, which is, it makes the wingnuts uncomfortable. Sad excuse for modifying the Constitution.