Valkenar wrote:
I'm starting to think you either are making up the stuff about how your family background is non-wealthy, or you've totally forgotten what it's like.
Oh really???
We almost never went out to eat, Justin. A third of my suppers were left-overs. I NEVER had new clothes; all mine were hand-me-downs.
My father paid for his own education with odd jobs. (BS in civil engineering at Manhattan). He moved with mom to Virginia to work for NACA (now Langley NASA). He built his own (brick) house from the construction company he started (from scratch) and ultimately sold (before becoming a broker).
I remember this car. It was really cool.
My dad drove that thing for over 200,000 miles - something extraordinary at the time. I remember the hospital puke green paint job he did on the body to make it stop rusting out.
This was the next POS my dad drove after kids 7 and 8 came.
They don't make Ramblers any more. American Motors got bought up by a French auto company (oxymoron if there ever was one).
My dad is comparatively wealthy now because: 1) he grew up in the depression, and 2) he understood and lived the concept of delayed gratification. We wasted NOTHING at home. Never bought a baggie, because we used plastic bags from bread. Repeatedly. Never had a clothes dryer. Etc., etc. And yet... he invested in the market. He took a very little bit of savings and built something incredible. He knew how to take BIG calculated risks, and had the drive to see it through. And mom (valedictorian of her high school class) became his business partner.
Yea, Justin, we were poor. But cream rises. I wish I could be as successful as my (still living) dad was.
Valkenar wrote:
Oh, I'm a libertarian in some things. Unfortunately I also believe in social responsibility.
What does social responsibility have to do with big government? The two are mutually exclusive.
Sorry I missed you on your Honeymoon. If you're ever in Virginia again, I'd like to give you a tour of the dozen bronze statues (and counting) that my dad helped design and hired an artist to build for many of the churches in the Tidewater area. Nobody told him how to be socially responsible. He took the memory of my mom, built a charitable foundation in her name, and now cannot give from it fast enough.
Government could never do that. Government gets in the way, telling him how much he must spend from these charitable trusts. They frown on them doing well. Some social responsibility...
Valkenar wrote:
I've worked at the same company for the past 12 years. I'm not the authority here, but I'm treated with respect. But if my boss started using a need for health insurance to pressure me to work longer hours or something, I'd be out faster than you can say "take this job and shove it"
Here's the thing, Justin. Do you know what entity gives the richest health insurance benefits? State and federal government. I saw the data. I did a research study that surveyed 15,000 members of the state government plan and the local utility plan. Even the benefits manager from the state says the only reason people work for state government is the benefits.
Big bad corporation? I don't think so. State workers stay ONLY because of their benefits. The pay otherwise suks. So the state benefits manager told me. And with every national BCBS meeting I went to, my counterparts in other BCBS plans told me that the state workers were the same where they were.
Maybe a paradigm shift is in order.
- Bill