Whether it's apparent or not, there's a network of martial families here. The Dojo Roundtable is a gathering place - my home if you will - where various families (Uechi, non-Uechi, and mixed martial arts) come to discuss things that are important to them. It resembles the conversations we used to have back in my UVa teaching days, where students would gather and talk about any/everything for hours after every class.M J Brelsford wrote:
Bill,
I guess, to the extent that I gather most of the folks know or wish to post.
The individual families are loyal to their members, whether they be fellow students or teachers (and grand teachers) that they have learned from. You know what I'm talking about here. While your Uechi teacher as a kid passed away, I'm sure you keep in touch with your first Uechi brothers in the neighborhood. (I do if you don't. Raffi is good people. He and Susan are dear friends to me and to my students.)
When families sense tension from an "outsider", I find they tend to circle the wagons and clam up. I know this discussion didn't go as far as it could have. Maybe another day, with another try. Or maybe by then what matters to you today won't matter any more, and we can talk about something else.
Well Dana is "family" to me. We are neighbors, we are friends from way back, and she ranks as one of the upper tier karate practitioners and teachers in my book. The fact that she was helpful to you does not surprise me. She is a class act.M J Brelsford wrote:
Got to say thanks to Dana, she was the closest. So Bill, please do not worry, soon I shall go away.
You were on Okinawa for some time, and know many of the Okinawa "families." I would have assumed you knew quite a bit about teachers, students, and friends. The fact that you said some of the things that you said does puzzle me, Mark. Maybe you just didn't know. I guess I assumed too much.
Some days are fun days here. Some days are what a friend of mine calls "Proud Mary" days. You know... the Tina Turner version. Sometimes she likes it nice... and rough.M J Brelsford wrote:
But you know Bill its the warm and kindness I feel here that just keeps me coming back.

My best to all the little Brelsfords. Come to think of it... they aren't so little any more.

- Bill