It happens...

- Hamlet Act 3, scene 2, 230The lady doth protest too much, methinks.
It reminds me of growing up in my household with 8 kids and 2 parents. Having six sisters (4 redheads) and an older brother made me quiet around the dinner table. There was no use saying anything. I would rather just sit back and watch it all.

In life, I found my own voice when I went out on my own. With the passionate K-threads, I find it best first to understand what the opinions and ideas are all about, and much later to be understood. Covey taught me well.

I don't claim to be standard anything when practicing, training, and teaching. We do our own thing, and we use all the basic tools that help us on our respective journeys. The yakusoku and bunkai kumite drills have been important for my learning AND my teaching.
But in my view, the brain freeze happens when people focus on them like a dog focuses on your hand pointing at Lassie on TV. These are tools for me. I need to get my students' engines running and vehicles in gear before I can comment on their driving. We need a controlled environment in which to engage in cooperative, semi-cooperative, and uncooperative conflict.
As I often tell my students, doing these exercises isn't the goal. Doing the exercises is what is necessary before the learning can begin. These are a means to an end, and not an end unto themselves. For example...
- How can I (NOT you!!!) teach people about lines of force if we don't first have an active but controlled environment where people are attacking each other?
- How can I teach people how to preempt an attack if they haven't seen it come at them literally at least a thousand times?
- How can I get people not to flinch their way to cowering and flailing when the poop is hitting the rotating propeller if they don't have an opportunity to spend long periods of time engaged with hands, feet, elbows, knees and such all flying about them?
- How can I teach them complex timing w.r.t. an opponent if we don't first start with simple timing? Here I am glad that I am an amateur musician, and am even teaching number 2 son how to play piano. (I wish my piano teacher taught me what I'm passing on...) Here I want to rip my friggin hair out when I find people who have no rhythm, or who have never played an instrument. Holy cow!
It isn't about being fast. God knows that speedy isn't my middle name. And yet... It's so much fun. - How can I teach people about movement if we don't start moving in SOME direction?
- How can I get people to understand how this stuff works if we don't do sequences thousands and thousands of times so that they can ease into "tasting the hot sauce?" Ask my students.
This isn't about proving anyone else's journey as being deficient (to what end???) so much as it is a celebration of how much I have gained from my journey, and all those who have helped me along the way.
I do have to say however that I had my greatest enlightenment on all this via a Goju martial artist who taught me 10 yakusoku kumite and 9 bunkai kumite. The best way to describe what he - a former green beret - tried to achieve with us was la poésie pure. It's a concept in French literature that's difficult to translate. But if you want to get into contemporary vernacular, grab the Nike logo - just do it. You stop worrying about what "it" is, and begin to focus on the joy of doing "it." You sometimes intentionally strip literal meaning out of "it" (as in The Jabberwocky) so you can begin to focus on other elements of "it." 'Just do it a thousand times' was a favorite expression of one of Patrick McCarthy's teachers. The opportunity to explore, embellish, and experiment would come after the boredom long set it.
I will leave you with three experiences that may or may not mean anything to you. But they were interesting signs on my journey that helped me realize I was getting value from my time.
- One of the more rewarding experiences I had teaching Kyu and Dan kumite was working with "Tony." He was somewhere north of 315 pounds, and was one of the fastest and most graceful "big guys" I've ever worked with. Tony could dunk a basketball before he got a little bigger around the midsection. And with all his weight, he could roll and fall better than anyone I've ever seen.
Tony had martial arts experience before coming to Uechi. Tony put his heart into doing things, and often would unintentionally hurt people. It happens... So I made Tony my personal project when it came time to teach these yakusoku kumite.
One of the most interesting things to experience is having someone do "the wrong" technique when you're doing a prearranged sequence. How do you respond? And what happens when you put a little skin in that game? What happens when a "mistake" could cost you big time?
I now spend lots of time working with people on these sequences. And as I do, I will take a target that someone gives me.
What? You HIT me?
I sure did! How come I got that in? - I LOVE working with animals, partly because an animal is going to do what an animal is going to do. My Ridgeback is known to be a "stubborn" breed. They are that way because they are used to hunt lions. Those that listened too much to their masters when they were in the hunting zone became kitty food. Yum!
My Ridgeback is powerful, fast, stubborn, and impulsive. I love him because of whom and what he is. My boys get frustrated with him at times because he's not an obedient, subservient Retriever. But they love him too. He's a cool dog for a couple of boys to have. And he sleeps in their beds at night. He is one of their "pack."
Maverick has this compulsive habit, which I think is characteristic to this line if not the breed. If you get your face anywhere near his or if he really wants to show you how much he loves you, you are going to get hit with a flying kiss in the face. It's sweet... but I am careful when he gets around kids.
One thing I have found myself doing with him is seeing the thing coming. It's almost lightning fast, but... You can see him loading his legs before the spring. And the next thing I know, my forearm is in his neck as he lunges up. And then... it completes a circle as I manipulate him back down to the ground.
You people who know your lower brain physiology should appreciate that. - Just the other day, one of my older women (a brown belt) was in a club. An obnoxious friend came up to her and grabbed her windpipe, and asked her "How's karate?" Without thinking, she did something I have been having my students do in their "taste the hot sauce" sessions. Her spear hand went right into his arm pit.
He walked away, with pride hurt more than his physiology. He never knew what hit him, or why he reacted the way he did.
Seisan bunkai anyone?
- Bruce LeeIt’s like a finger, pointing at the moon. If you stare at the finger, you miss all the heavenly glory.
Enjoy your journey.

- Bill